tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post8594812255477729803..comments2024-03-08T16:21:58.524-05:00Comments on Her Sides: Wakeup CallSeye Okehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12157946504399812178noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-47891021809263601812013-04-05T20:42:19.007-04:002013-04-05T20:42:19.007-04:00In addition to the Bible. I feel one excellent boo...In addition to the Bible. I feel one excellent book to read which I recommended to my Mother who is in a not too happy marriage with my dad is the Exemplary husband by Stuart Scott. In addition, a book called, "from pride to humilty". If she is ever going to have a chance of having love restored to her family, I now believe she should stay, (as long as he is not physically abusive), Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-40989710055775039842013-04-04T17:40:12.149-04:002013-04-04T17:40:12.149-04:00Even thought the Bible and Jesus did say that infi...Even thought the Bible and Jesus did say that infidelity was a reason for divorce, I do believe that divorce is not the answer. Western culture so often screams divorce as the route to take, but I beg to disagree. I believe separation may a temporary solution but it should be for a specific reason. <br />No matter how unfaithful the man is, both partners are not perfect and need to focus on theirAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-80426313734232475302012-10-08T14:55:02.808-04:002012-10-08T14:55:02.808-04:00She needs to leave. Even the Bible gives a way out...She needs to leave. Even the Bible gives a way out in cases of fornication<br />Sholahttp://www.sholashade.worpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-77036476126636448682012-10-04T10:15:39.382-04:002012-10-04T10:15:39.382-04:00Hi Seye,
I really feel for your friend, it is one...Hi Seye,<br /><br />I really feel for your friend, it is one of the most difficult situation to be in but like everyone have said, divorce is not an option, it does not make anything better, saying that I 100% agree with the anon who suggested separation. People find the idea foreign but I've seen it work many times, yes she should pray and fast but what is being asked of her is to continue Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00317864843992921420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-7519620877498375002012-09-29T15:21:27.625-04:002012-09-29T15:21:27.625-04:00Thanks Uzo, its amazing how everyone that read thi...Thanks Uzo, its amazing how everyone that read this agree that she should stay and fight for her marriage. So good to know our generation still believes in families staying together.Seye Okehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12157946504399812178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-57172199423241237272012-09-29T13:23:49.879-04:002012-09-29T13:23:49.879-04:00hmmmh.. the easy way out is to leave the marriage ...hmmmh.. the easy way out is to leave the marriage but we took the vows. let her hold on to God and His word. The definition of love in 1 Cor 13 should console her; that is the love that does not expect to be reciprocated. at this point God is all she has. She must continually and fervently for HIM.Difficult but that's the only way to set him back on the right path. I recommend she reads PowerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-37754040380652545662012-09-25T09:41:47.924-04:002012-09-25T09:41:47.924-04:00Thanks Lummie we will check out the books.Thanks Lummie we will check out the books.Seye Okehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12157946504399812178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-69630883810569102532012-09-25T07:12:11.555-04:002012-09-25T07:12:11.555-04:00@Seye, I would like to recommend these books to he...@Seye, I would like to recommend these books to her; "Staying Together When an Affair Pulls You Apart -<br />Stephen M. Judah", "Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken - Cindy Beall", "Every Heart Restored: A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband's Sexual Sin", "Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity", "The Healing Lummiehttp://www.souldestiny.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-52802342909125069892012-09-24T16:13:00.384-04:002012-09-24T16:13:00.384-04:00@Seye, I strongly believe if she shared the same i...@Seye, I strongly believe if she shared the same ideals with you, then she surely didn't just agree to marry this man without seeing in him being responsible, God fearing and ultimately greatness in their future together. I can imaging when they met, there was once a reason why she smiled to herself and said 'I love this guy'. Along the way, something was lost and gradually Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639533883220840118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-25335509993202932902012-09-24T14:39:46.332-04:002012-09-24T14:39:46.332-04:00Thanks. Can anyone recommend a great book or mater...Thanks. Can anyone recommend a great book or material that can also help her out during this time?Seye Okehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12157946504399812178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-76074434853491346132012-09-24T14:05:58.995-04:002012-09-24T14:05:58.995-04:00The easy way out of this kind of challenge is sepa...The easy way out of this kind of challenge is separation or divorce. Which is only a short term solution. Is she convinced she will eventually find peace and happiness when she's alone. A man that abandons his wife and kids is definitely not thinking. If you can muster some faith, please encourage your friend and make out time to pray with her. Breaking marriages so that the children become Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-57227756248326949272012-09-24T13:37:20.127-04:002012-09-24T13:37:20.127-04:00Thanks Funmi I'll pass on your thoughts.Thanks Funmi I'll pass on your thoughts.Seye Okehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12157946504399812178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4223135313185495374.post-15372330595889357812012-09-24T03:21:58.342-04:002012-09-24T03:21:58.342-04:00@Seye, from the story, your friend seems unable to...@Seye, from the story, your friend seems unable to give more and can one blame her? The bible says iron sharpenth iron but she has walked alone for 7 years, getting almost nothing. This man is not just unfaithful but he seems carefree and unrepentant. He has neglected the wife of his youth and gone after strange womento the extent that he does not fulfill his obligations as a husband. I am Funmilolanoreply@blogger.com