Her Sides

At the core of who we are—beneath our appearance, our accomplishments, our possessions, and even the roles we play—is our soul. It is the essence of who we are. And when God created us, He created something beautiful. A soul capable of joy, hope, creativity, love, compassion, kindness, and connection. He placed His light within humanity and created us in His image. There is something about the soul of a child that gives us a glimpse of this beauty in its purest form. A baby enters the world innocent and open—ready to love, trust, laugh, explore, and receive love without reservation. But then life happens. We experience disappointment. Rejection. Betrayal. Failure. Loss. Shame. Regret. Words are spoken that we cannot unhear. People we trusted hurt us. Dreams we believed in don't happen the way we imagined. And sometimes, without realizing it, we begin allowing those experiences to change us. It is as though life fires arrows at the soul. One arrow becomes...

Every action we take in this life is like a seed. Every choice we make is something we sow, and just like every seed that is planted, it grows and produces after its own kind.   When we sow a smile, we often receive one in return. When we sow kindness, kindness has a way of finding its way back to us. But of all the seeds we can sow, righteousness produces one of the greatest harvests.   What is righteousness? Simply put, it is choosing to do what is right according to God's standard. It draws us closer to Him, and in His presence we experience peace, joy, hope, and fullness of life. When we choose to live according to God's ways, we not only honor Him, but we also position ourselves to experience the blessings that come from walking with Him.   As Proverbs 14:34 reminds us, "Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people."    Every time we choose what is right, we are sowing seeds that bring pleasure to God and produce a harvest ...

I’m excited to share that a newly revised edition of Who Will Wear The Crown  is now available! Stories, like trees, continue to grow. In this updated version, I’ve refreshed the ending of Thorny Bee’s journey to make it even more inspiring, hope-filled, and meaningful for young readers. At its heart, Who Will Wear The Crown   is a story about courage, kindness, and discovering that even the smallest voice can make a powerful difference. My hope is that this new ending will encourage children and families to believe in the value of respect, compassion, and caring for one another. Thank you to everyone who has supported and grown with this little tree. I’m grateful to share this new chapter with you. With gratitude, Seye Oke 🌳✨ Click to buy    

There is a race set before you—a divine call, a path marked out by God, a purpose only you can fulfill. Do you still remember it? Are you still walking in it? Or have distractions slowly pulled you away from the life God called you to live? That was the question my church pastor asked on Sunday, or at least part of the message that stayed with me. It caused me to reflect on my own race and the many others I’ve witnessed. So many of us begin the Christian race with passion—that hot, fiery blaze that shines brightly as we step into our walk with God. But somewhere along the way, many lose focus. Life gets noisy. Comparison creeps in. Delays become discouraging. Offense, disappointment, and weariness begin to weigh the heart down. Slowly, the blaze that once burned brightly becomes a faint ember. As concerning as that may sound, there is no judgment in the eyes of God. He understands. That is why He sends messengers to rekindle the spark within us and remind us that it is not enough...

Have you ever been on a walk and looked at nature? Flowers growing wildly along the dirt road, birds singing carefree in the trees and the sounds of insects around. A cool breeze blows across your face, refreshing it. Have you ever taken a hike up a mountain and looked breathlessly at the horizon from the mountaintop?  Have you marvelled at animals in their majestic strength and wondered at the grandeur of their stature? Have you been impressed by feats of men and incredible inventions, or magnificent displays of megastructures? As impressive as all this is, the only thing that God is impressed by is a man who fears and trusts Him. “He takes no pleasure in the strength of a horse or in human might. No, the Lord’s delight is in those who fear Him, those who put their hope in His unfailing love.” Psalm 147:10–11 You want to see God smile? You want to get your heavenly Father excited—then fear and trust Him. The Bible teaches us that without faith it is impossible to please God, and...

There is a moment many women eventually encounter. A moment when the strategies that once defined us — pushing harder, moving faster, saying yes to every opportunity — no longer feel quite right.The bravery that helped build the earlier chapters of life begins to give way to something quieter and deeper: wisdom. In our younger years, bravery often leads the way. Bravery moves us across cities and continents. Bravery opens doors to new careers and possibilities. Bravery walks confidently into rooms where we must prove ourselves again. Bravery builds. But life has a way of teaching us that bravery alone is not meant to guide every season. Over time, something shifts. What once required boldness begins to require discernment. What once demanded action begins to invite reflection. Slowly, we begin to understand that life unfolds in seasons. And honestly, that’s exactly how I feel right now — a slow shift from bravery to wisdom.   A Season for Everything The wisdom of Ecclesiast...