Reflection: Spouse Thingz
Written by Funmi Ilesanmi There is no right or wrong answer when it comes to choosing a spouse or is there? When love is involved it should be pretty simple, shouldn’t it? I have come to know that love is a choice – a choice to like and remain with a person despite all odds. Love is not the mushy can't-sleep-without -you feeling that we read about in romance novels, which has in a way given rise to separation, divorce and infidelity in today’s society. So if love is a choice, how do you know you have made or about to make the right choice in a spouse. The journey begins with asking yourself two questions and answering honestly so you identify adjustments to be made otherwise you just may breeze through life, missing out on the best of it! Do you recognize who you have become ever since you met your spouse? I believe you know your personality, attitude and character. What you could or couldn't do. Perhaps you were a person with goals, desires and peculiarities befor...